????今年大家最關(guān)注的兩位最具影響力女性人物也已經(jīng)學(xué)會主宰自己的權(quán)力,。IBM的首席執(zhí)行官羅曼提在今年最新的榜單上名列榜首,。她在去年的最具影響力女性峰會上坦承,，在早期職業(yè)生涯中,，有一次老板曾經(jīng)給她升職的機(jī)會，但她卻告訴老板自己并沒有準(zhǔn)備好,。而提點(diǎn)她的人就是自己的先生,，他問：“你認(rèn)為有哪個男性會像你那樣回絕嗎？”羅梅蒂最終接受了升職,。????

????而在今年的《財富》MPW排名中一舉跳升至第14位的是雅虎（Yahoo）新任首席執(zhí)行官瑪麗莎?梅耶爾,。在7月份接受新職務(wù)之后，這位谷歌前任高管向《財富》透露：“我懷孕了,?！眮碜酝箍敌侵菸炙魇械拿芬疇栕苑Q是“書呆子”。她不僅是“最具影響力女性”榜單有史以來的最年輕上榜者,，也是財富美國500強(qiáng)中最年輕的CEO,，同時還是在懷孕時開始擔(dān)任500強(qiáng)CEO的第一人。

????雅虎的董事會歡迎這樣一位（因為懷孕而）面臨生活方面的復(fù)雜挑戰(zhàn)的女掌門,，而外界對她懷孕的信息也以正面反應(yīng)為主,，這都昭示著在女性權(quán)力方面的進(jìn)步。

????確實,，權(quán)力在演化,。梅耶爾的故事讓我想到一個我能欣然接受的權(quán)力定義：真正的權(quán)力是個人化的權(quán)力。它還包含你在工作職責(zé)和頭銜之外的生活的方方面面,。真正的權(quán)力就在于你如何面對生活的全部,。

????This year, the spotlight shines on two MPW who also have learned to own their power. IBM (IBM) CEO Ginni Rometty, Fortune's new No. 1 on the list, admitted at last year's Most Powerful Women Summit that early in her career when a boss offered her a promotion, she told him that she didn't feel ready. Actually, her husband gave her the "aha moment": "Do you think a man would have ever answered that question that way?" he asked her. Rometty accepted the promotion.

????And vaulting up this year'sFortuneMPW rankings, toNo. 14: Marissa Mayer. In July, after accepting the CEO job at Yahoo (YHOO), the former Google (GOOG) executive revealed toFortune: "I'm pregnant." A self-described shy "nerd" from Wausau, Wisconsin, Mayer is not only the youngest woman ever to make the MPW list. At 37, she is also the youngest CEO of a Fortune 500company and the first to assume that top job pregnant.

????The fact that the Yahoo board -- and the world, which reacted mostly positively --welcomes a female chief with a complicated life is progress.

????Yes, Power is evolving. Mayer's story evokes the definition of power that I've come to embrace: Real power is personal power. It's what you do and what you have beyond your job description and your tenure. Real power is what you do with your full life.