年輕人要勇于追逐夢(mèng)想
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????備用方案事實(shí)上就是失敗方案,。擁有方案B，雷伯曼表示,，“等于是告訴自己,，你追求夢(mèng)想的努力可能會(huì)失敗，絕對(duì)不應(yīng)該有這樣的想法,。全力以赴,，你就會(huì)得到自己想要的東西?！?/p> ????得到夢(mèng)想工作要比其他工作更容易,。為什么？因?yàn)槟銓?duì)它充滿了激情,。雷伯曼稱：“雖然我申請(qǐng)其他競(jìng)爭(zhēng)不那么激烈的職位都沒(méi)有成功,，但我年紀(jì)輕輕就在NBA獲得了一份管理工作，其中一個(gè)原因就是我非常想要這份NBA的工作,?！边@看上去可能有違直覺(jué)，但他相信“人擁有更高目標(biāo)時(shí),，成功的可能性更大,。” ????獲得夢(mèng)想工作的最好辦法不是找工作,，而是找人,。很多職位空缺都不會(huì)打廣告，而是通過(guò)人脈關(guān)系和推薦就找到了合適的人,。雷伯曼指出,，擠入“‘隱形就業(yè)市場(chǎng)’的唯一辦法就是結(jié)識(shí)希望進(jìn)入行業(yè)的業(yè)內(nèi)人士，和他們多談?wù)??！本湍愕那闆r而言，為什么不從實(shí)習(xí)時(shí)認(rèn)識(shí)的人開(kāi)始,？ ????人脈不等于“所有認(rèn)識(shí)的人”,。雷伯曼認(rèn)為這是傳統(tǒng)觀念欠缺的地方,。“人脈其實(shí)是喜歡你,、看好你的人，”他解釋道,?！霸诎涯阃扑]給其他人或給你提供某個(gè)機(jī)會(huì)前，聯(lián)絡(luò)人會(huì)自覺(jué)或不自覺(jué)地考慮：‘我看好這個(gè)人嗎,？把他/她介紹給我的圈子會(huì)不會(huì)毀了我的名聲,？’” ????“如果答案是否定的，這樣的人脈毫無(wú)幫助,。如果答案是肯定的,，你往往就能贏得任何人的推薦?！边@也是另一個(gè)原因,，為什么對(duì)你來(lái)說(shuō)，聰明的做法是從那些認(rèn)可你實(shí)習(xí)表現(xiàn)的人開(kāi)始,，從你們老師可能掌握的業(yè)內(nèi)聯(lián)系人開(kāi)始,。 ????追求夢(mèng)想工作的兩點(diǎn)建議：第一，沒(méi)有什么工作是完美的,，我們的預(yù)期不能脫離現(xiàn)實(shí),。雷伯曼說(shuō)：“從來(lái)沒(méi)有哪份工作永遠(yuǎn)精彩紛呈，沒(méi)有沮喪,，沒(méi)有不足,。” ????第二,，他說(shuō)：“不要給自己太大壓力”,。如果你最終進(jìn)入電影圈后發(fā)現(xiàn)這和你想象的不一樣，“要記住,，一份工作并不等于無(wú)期徒刑,。隨時(shí)可以換個(gè)方向。其實(shí),，,，大多數(shù)人一生中都會(huì)多次換工作，甚至完全轉(zhuǎn)變職業(yè)方向,?！?/p> ????祝你好運(yùn)。 ????反饋：你畢業(yè)后是如何得到第一份工作的,？今天你還在這個(gè)行業(yè)里做嗎,？或者你后來(lái)改變了職業(yè)道路,？請(qǐng)?jiān)谙旅媪粞浴?/p> ????譯者：老榆木 |
????A back-up plan is actually a plan for failure. By having a Plan B, Leibman says, "you're telling yourself you might not succeed at your real search, which is exactly what you shouldn't be thinking. Hold nothing back, and you will get what you want." ????It's easier to get your dream job than most other jobs. Why? Because you're genuinely passionate about it. "One reason I got a front-office job in the NBA at such a young age, while being turned down for other openings where there was less competition, is because of how badly I wanted that NBA job," Leibman says. Counterintuitive as it may seem, he believes that "you're more likely to succeed when you aim high." ????The best way to get the job you want is to stop looking for jobs and look for people. Because so many openings are never advertised anywhere, and are filled through personal contacts and recommendations, "the only way to crack the 'hidden job market' is to talk to people working in the industry where you want to get hired," Leibman notes. In your case, why not start with the people you already know from your past internships? ????Networking is not "all about who you know." This is one point where Leibman says the conventional wisdom falls short. "Networking is really about who likes you and who respects you," he explains. "Before referring you to someone else or letting you in on an opportunity, a contact is consciously or unconsciously deciding, 'Do I like and respect this person enough to put my reputation on the line by introducing him or her to my inner circle?' ????"If the answer is no, networking will get you nowhere. However, if the answer is yes, you can usually get almost anyone to open his Rolodex." This is yet another reason why you'd be wise to begin your search with people who liked your work at the companies where you interned, and the industry contacts your professors may have. ????Two more thoughts about pursuing a dream job: First, nothing is perfect, so keep your expectations in line with reality. "No job will ever be exciting and free from frustrations and drawbacks 100% of the time," Leibman notes. ????And second, he adds, "Don't put too much pressure on yourself." If you end up working in the movie business and at some point decide that it isn't what you hoped, "remember, a job is not a life sentence. You can change directions at any time -- and in fact, most people change jobs, and even careers, a number of times throughout their lives." ????Good luck. ????Talkback: How did you get your first job out of school? Was it in the same field where you work now, or did you later change direction? Leave a comment below. |
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